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Josh's avatar

This is wonderful and I'm so glad to hear the writer is doing well!

However I'm confused about how the logic is supposed to go here. The Szaszian model is, I thought, that people are depressed/anxious/etc because they *prefer* the life that affords them, for whatever reason. So in what sense can someone look at their situation, and after reading Szasz think "I guess I really just prefer depression", and use this as motivation to work on resolving their depression? This seems like clear evidence that they did *not* prefer depression!

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I am very glad your reader was able to solve his own challenges and build a better life. Frankly, it sounds like he invented his own version of Cognitive Behavioral Therapy and implemented it. Most people would not have the creativity and force of will to do that without help.

Until I was middle-aged, I suffered from what some call Social Anxiety Disorder. I've always been a strong public speaker, but in one-on-one interactions I would freeze up. Couldn't handle small talk at all. I got paranoid about every word coming out of my mouth, thinking everything was disastrously clumsy and I was being judged for it. The casual interactions that are necessary in my line of work were too much for me. It was very limiting, both personally and professionally.

I had tried therapy in college and found it a total waste of time. Then when I was in my mid 40s, I found a CBT therapist who was great. His technique was to help you identify self-defeating patterns of thought and do various real-world exercises to subdue and conquer them. Pretty much what your reader describes. The CBT folks waste no time at all on exploring your childhood or what might be the cause of your problems; they go straight to fixing them, by helping you develop a kind of discipline over your thought processes, to end self-sabotage.

It took about 6 or 7 sessions and the "homework assignments" in between to change my life. I was thrilled but also wished I could have found that help when I was in my teens or twenties. There is quite a bit of empirical evidence backing the effectiveness of CBT approaches.

As for Szasz, I think he was one of the necessary critics to tear down useless approaches to psychology and therapy. [Most notoriously, Freudian therapy has been proven useless; Freud, like Marx, seems like nothing but a pseudo-scientific quack.] I'm not aware that Szasz built anything effective as a replacement. Whether "Social Anxiety Disorder" is a "mental illness" seems like an irrelevant battle over definitions. The relevant question is, if it's an unwanted condition or pattern of behaviors, can outside, expert interventions help address it? Such approaches are available now.

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