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Hypatia's avatar

Sexual preference is a spectrum. Most straights have some gay in us. Most gays have some straight.

I particularly remember a stag party where, as was the custom at the time, a porn video was shown supposedly to train the bridegroom to be. The two girls were the stuff wet dreams are made of but the stud was older, bepaunched, balding and nothing exceptional in the trouser department. I remember the groans of disappointment. The stud in a porno has to be sexy in a way that men will think sexy. Men get more turned on by a porno if the stud is sexy.

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stu's avatar

Orr maybe it's that we can understand how the stud gets those girls but find it a bit absurd to think the fat, bald, old guy gets them too.

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Larry Siegel's avatar

I didn't know that stag parties were to train the groom - what a ridiculous concept - men were expected to be experienced even when women were not. (This is before my time.) But to your main point, yes, porn videos are only fun to watch (IMHO) if the guy(s) as well as the girl(s) are attractive.

Is that a form of homosexuality? I would say yes, but I think of myself as open-minded and you should ask a bunch of outspokenly anti-gay frat boys whether they prefer an old fat guy or a young stud in the (hetero) porn that they watch. I'd bet a large sum of cash on the stud.

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