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Back to the 80’s discussions by the perhaps poorly informed.

Homosexuality, bisexuality, and heterosexuality are features of sex acts. Gay, bi, lesbian are labels populations chose to identify the fact of their preference as manifest by their predominant sexual activity.

A person who says they are straight but only has sex acts with the same sex is homosexual.

A person who says they are bisexual but only has sex acts with people of one sex is either heterosexual or homosexual.

A person who says they are homosexual but only has sex acts with someone of the opposite sex is heterosexual.

A person who says they are homosexual or heterosexual but has sex acts with people of both sexes is bisexual.

Sexual orientation is something you need to deduce from predominant sexual behavior.

There used to be a huge stigma from stating you had homosexual sex. “The love that dared not speak its name.”

There arose an edgy cool factor to saying you might have homosexual sex. “The love that date nor speak its name never shuts the fuck up.”

Both heterosexuals and homosexuals, due to theory of mind deficits, could not conceive of bisexuality being real.

The response of the hypothalamus in humans to androstadienone is exclusive to homosexual men, bisexual men and women, and heterosexual women.

The response of the hypothalamus in humans to estratetraenol is exclusive to homosexual women, bisexual men and women and heterosexual men.

Therefore, sex researchers have finally confirmed that bisexuality is real irrespective of the beliefs of homosexuals and heterosexuals.

There are people who have exclusively homosexual sex their whole life but claim they are not gay.

There are people who have exclusively heterosexual sex their whole life but claim they are not straight.

There are people who have exclusively heterosexual sex or homosexual sex their entire life but claim they are bi.

Sexual response to one or the other sex is innate, has never been able to changed, and has been correlated to both genetic and epigenetic factors. There is no single source that has been found.

Recently there have been attempts to redefine gay or lesbian as same-gender attracted, straight as opposite-gender attracted, and bi as dual-gender attracted, which further “extinguishes” the plain meaning which homosexual rights advocates adopted for themselves - gay, lesbian, bi, and the relationship to sex and sex acts.

A gay man cannot have straight sex with a man no matter what they call themselves.

A lesbian woman cannot have straight sex with a woman no matter what they call themselves.

A bisexual man cannot have straight sex with a man, nor can a bisexual woman have straight sex with a woman.

A straight woman cannot have gay sex with a man. A straight man cannot have lesbian sex with a woman.

Why would there be a new number of people claiming to be gay, lesbian, or bisexual other than a massive and unprecedented genetic shift, or “recruitment”

Because people who do not have homosexual sex acts claim they do because of social pressure to be inclusive, and the fact that because they are heterosexual prevents them from feeling the negative effects of still present social stigma from actual homosexual sex acts.

There has been no mass uptick in young men meeting men for sex in sex apps in the last 5-10 years, no doubling or tripling. Venues for meeting men for sex are in the same precarious state they have been in for two decades. Viewership of gay porn is stable, and studios are consolidating due to market maturity, not growth. Same sex marriage is not doubling or tripling.

People lying on surveys about sex attitudes versus sex behaviors has changed dramatically. Fetish beliefs that male lesbians exist or female gays exist is unexceptional, but both are conventional heterosexual humans.

Belief that women feeling masculine or men feeling feminine is sufficient to be lesbian or gay independent of actual acts, “nonbininary” confusion with bisexual, and other intentional category confusion is the status quo.

Easy future formula, a kind of shorthand:

If he doesn’t such cock he’s not gay or bi.

If she doesn’t lick pussy she’s not lesbian or bi.

If they say they do but they don’t, they are “poseurs”

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