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Nebu Pookins's avatar

I am introverted and I strongly believe I am being underpaid relative to my more extroverted peers. I work at Amazon as a Software Development Engineer. There, they give titles like SDE1, SDE2, SDE3, etc., where a higher number implies higher skill level and thus higher pay. I am currently an SDE2.

Almost everyone who interacts with me says I should be SDE3. Managers and peer describe me as the highest performing member on my team. And yet, other people get promoted to SDE3 and I remain an SDE2.

One of the main cause for this discrepancy is that to get promoted, you need to be boastful and constantly selling yourself to people you would otherwise not interact with. Specifically, it's not your manager's decision whether or not you get promoted. All managers try to get their SDE2s promoted to SDE3, but all these requests get presented to a committee of higher-ups. And having good relations with these higher-ups (even though there's no business justification for why you would ever interact with them), and especially having them recognize your name in a pile of applications, greatly enhances the odds that you will be promoted.

There's apparently a scarcity mindset for these promotions, where the higherups don't want to promoted too many people to SDE3. So while I do great work, and my manager can tell them that I do great work, every manager says their SDE2s do great work too. And the extroverted ones, the ones that the higher-ups have heard of and interacted with and get a general impression of confidence and high energy, are the ones that get promoted.

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Data Framed's avatar

Do studies of personality and earnings generally control for IQ and sex? Depending on the answer, it would change the plausible theories alot.

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